本研究之主要目的在探討（一）性別、年級、出生序與高中生寂寞之關係；（二）父母管教方式與高中生寂寞之關係；（三）手足關係與高中生寂寞之關係;（四）背景變項、父母管教方式、手足關係對高中生寂寞之預測力。

本研究使用調查研究法，並透過文獻分析、問卷調查與統計分析等步驟歸納結論。研究對象為就讀於台北縣市之高中生，共施測1044份問卷，其中有效問卷為906份。研究工具計有：（一）基本資料調查表；（二）寂寞量表；（三）父(母)管教方式量表；（四）手足關係量表。使用之統計方法為：因素分析、描述統計、單因子單變量變異數分析、相關分析、多元迴歸分析，並以Scheffe′法進行事後比較。研究結果如下：

一、不同年級的高中生，在整體寂寞及『寂寞無助』、『缺乏友伴』、『歸屬感弱』三個寂寞向度上均無顯著差異。

二、不同性別的高中生，其寂寞程度具有顯著差異：高中男生整體寂寞較女生為高，並且較女生感到缺乏友伴。

三、不同出生序的高中生，在整體寂寞及三個寂寞向度上均無顯著差異。

四、父親管教方式不同，高中生之寂寞程度具有顯著差異：在父親忽視冷漠管教方式下，高中子女最為寂寞。

五、母親管教方式不同，高中生之寂寞程度具有顯著差異：大致在忽視冷漠管教方式下，高中子女之寂寞程度較開明權威、寬鬆放任管教方式為高；而母親若採用專制權威管教方式，高中子女將較採用開明權威管教方式者感到缺乏友伴以及缺乏歸屬感。

六、父母管教方式不同，高中生之寂寞程度具有顯著差異：大致在父母均採用忽視冷漠管教方式下，高中子女之寂寞程度較均採用開明權威、專制權威管教方式為高；此外，若父母管教方式不一致，高中子女之整體寂寞以及三個寂寞向度之得分，均較父母均採用開明權威管教方式者高。

七、四項手足關係均與高中生之寂寞顯著相關：手足間衝突越高、父母對手足越偏寵，則高中生寂寞程度越高；手足關係越親密、在手足間之相對地位越高，則高中生越不咸到寂寞。

八、背景變項、父母管教方式、手足關係等變項，均能有效預測高中生之寂寞。對寂寞之解釋量分別為:整體寂寞-12.8％；寂寞無助-13.3％；缺乏友伴-14.3％；歸屬威弱-7.3％。

本研究針對上述發現加以討論，並提出建議以供父母及學校輔導人員參考。

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